HOW DO I FINGER MYSELF 😭🤦🏻‍♀️

ok so i'm still pretty inexperienced and i don't use tampons😭 i have no idea how to finger myself or what feels right anytime i try i can't figure out how and i tried a lot like getting a mirror to help me ect im still a virgin and i'm planning on losing it soon but i need some help how and where the hole is and how to make it not feel uncomfortable to even try!