PLEASE HELP!!!

Brittney • 34, Ohio TTC miracle #1 fingers crossed, been trying for awhile ✨
I have pretty dark eyebrows, that are a bit on the thicker side (I will NEVER have to pencil them in for sure...lol)...I'm pretty fair skinned to go with those dark eyebrows, and my hair is down to my bottom...I want to do something different with my hair, it's so thick and heavy that it pulls out my curl even, something not too out there, but lighter colors...I want to feel confident, my hairs so frizzy all the time, I'm not too good when it comes to picking out hair colors/cuts/styles (I never grew up knowing any of that as in how to explain it to the stylist or what even looks good on me), so please HELP!!! Any suggestions appreciated!!! I'll include a couple pictures so you can see my hair/eyebrows!!! They are older pics and my hair has grown a bit, but pretty much looks the same...