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me and this boy are "talking" and he always tells me he doesn't want to rush things but he does want to have sex i'm 16 i'm still a virgin stay on top of my grades and my sports and i just don't know if he really likes me or if he just wants to have sex why would somebody take advantage of a virgin in this generation it's suprising enough to even know a virgin idk what to do

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He doesnt want to rush things but wants to have sex?? Having sex is literally what people usually mean when they say they dont want to rush things. He simply means he would like to have sex without being tied to you in a relationship. He just wants sex.

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if you guys are just talking and he wants to have sex esp when you're still a virgin, don't do it. At least wait til you guys are dating and wait a few months at least or just til you're ready. you know how little boys are in this generation.

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No he just wants in your pants. If he respected you at all he would wait to get to know you and love you and wait for you to be prepared and ready emotionally. DO NOT let him pressure you into anything or talk you into anything. If you don't feel ready then you don't feel ready. Set clear boundaries and if he doesn't like them then he's not for you.

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If you aren't comfortable, you are completely allowed to feel as if you don't owe him sex. Because guess what? You don't. Explain to him that you aren't ready for that it would be best to wait. And if he doesn't respect that or dumps you now/ a little later, then that totally means he was using you for sex and that he didn't deserve you in the first place. Always put your needs in front of others in these kind of situations!

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Don't do anything you are not okay with. If for 2 seconds you think you might regret it don't do it. You're young and plenty more cute boys will come into your life. And I've know you probably heard this before but it's seriously the truth. I'm 18 and I was in the same situation 2 years ago and I'm glad i waited because what I just said is true and I found some one I really love and you will to. Save your self for someone you know will not take advantage of you. You'll know I promise. :)

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Sounds like he just wants you for sex. He's trying to make it look Iike he's a good guy by saying he doesn't want to rush things.

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