Baby before Married or Na?

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My question is do you care if you  get married before having a child ? If you're both together and know you both love each other and both want to have a kid but not married yet , what would you do ?? Wait a couple years to get married because you want a nice wedding then have a child or have a child and save up until you know the time is right to afford a wedding??? This has been bugging me for months now so I know I should do what makes me happy but I'll love to hear everyone's opinions.

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Personally, I always wanted to be married. If a guy couldn't commit to me what makes me think he will commit to our child? And if he couldnt, why would I want him in my life for the next 18 years? Just my personal opinion.

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I personally would not have (and didn't have) a child before marriage, but I don't care what other people do.  Sometimes I worry when people who aren't 100% committed have a child together, but you don't have to be married to be committed.

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I won't be married by the time that I have my baby. Baby's father and I aren't even together so it'll just be the two of us 😊

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I got married after I was already pregnant but we had been engaged for about two years and already had everything planned out and it Happened to be that I found out I was pregnant two months before our wedding so it just kinda worked out that way lol

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I got married after I was already pregnant but we had been engaged for about two years and already had everything planned out and it Happened to be that I found out I was pregnant two months before our wedding so it just kinda worked out that way lol

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I got married when I was 14 weeks pregnant. I wasn't planning on being pregnant at my wedding but my baby is the greatest thing that's happened to me and we had been planning to get married for over a year when we got pregnant so it's not like we rushed it because of the baby.

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10 years ago, my answer would have been yes! Without a doubt! Mainly because I was young, and raised in a VERY religious household. Now, I think it would still be ideal, because of how judemental both my parents are, and it's just sometimes looked down upon, but I'm no longer 20 and no longer think you'll burn in hell for it, lol.

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Totally a personal choice. I don't care if I'm married first or not. These days that isn't a big deal anymore. My fiancé and I got engaged in march of 2016 and bought a house in May so having it wedding right away wasn't exactly possible money wise. We decided to wait until 2018 for our wedding which is already booked and has been for quite some time now. I did not want to wait for my first child that long knowing I would be 25 and he would be 27 already. So we decided to try right after buying our house so that way we could get pregnant and have the baby purposely before our wedding. And honestly I feel so happy that we will be able to have our little boy here for our wedding as I am now 26w4d.

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If money were an issue, I'd get hitched at the courthouse, have a baby, and then save it for five years for a big ceremony on my anniversary. Just know that it's going to be harder to save up once you have a kid!

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For me personally, I always wanted to ensure I was married first, and it just so happened to work out that way.  That being said, I think for OTHER PEOPLE, that as long as you're in a loving and committed relationship, you do whatever works for you!   Everyone has a different view and you shouldn't let anyone else's opinion make that decision for you ❤❤❤

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