FUCKIN DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Ok, so I got in a debate with someone about calling your boyfriend/husband "daddy" and how it's soo disgusting! But why is it not disgusting for our boyfriend/husband to call us Ma or mama??  I call my husband daddy everywhere we go, I call him daddy in bed. Does that mean I have daddy issues? No. My husband calls me ma or mama everywhere we go and in bed. Does that mean he has mommy issues? No.  It's a FUCKIN term of endearment! Why is it such a double standard?? I don't assume anyone is a pedophile because you call your spouse baby. FUCKIN DOUBLE STANDARDS!