Hello everyone it would seem that I forgot to introduce myself. My name is Charmaine I'm 29 and I've been married for a year and seven months. I'm black and my husband is Hispanic and so there's always some sort of misunderstanding but we are committed to this thing called marriage!😊 I'm here because I really want to have a child but sometimes I feel trapped because one week my husband is really pushing to have a child but some of that is because of his mother and every time we have Sex he thinks we should be pregnant because his mom is always saying what's wrong with that girl why don't you have kids yet...I feel like a failure as a wife most of the time but sometimes I feel like I can do this and this is my time to conceive but my husband will then say I thought you said you were going to lose weight first!!! You can't have children now because you need to lose weight. This makes me want to give up. How should I respond to such talk?