So my current boyfriend and I have been dating for awhile and he's a wonderful guy. He's very smart and handsome and funny. He's charming and sometimes when he just looks at me I can barely speak. However, every day I can feel myself loving him more and more but I don't think he loves me nearly as much and it really hurts my feelings. He hasn't explicitly said he doesn't love me as much but we're both busy with school and work but I always try to make time for him but he doesn't really with me and just how he responds to me versus how I respond to him I can just tell I love him more. So my question is this... have you ever loved someone more than they love you and if so how did you deal with that? It's a very difficult thing because it hurts my feelings so much that I almost want to break up with him because of it but it's a catch 22 because yes I might feel less stressed without him because I always feel like I'm always trying to make him love me just as much as I love him but at the same time I don't think I could bare not having him around me. I'm an independent person and have never been clingy except for him. And it's weird because I don't feel like he loves me as much but at the same time he talks about marrying me and having a future with me. I'm under the impression that guys just don't love as hard but that can't be true because I have guy friends that are head over heels obsessed with their girlrlfriends. It's as if I'm heart broken while in a relationship with someone I'm in love with. It's a strange feeling. So I don't know. Thoughts?
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