am i the only one?

Question

I am always comparing myself to my boyfriend's ex. I feel like we started dating too soon after their breakup and that i was some replacement or rebound. I keep stalking her to such extent and compare myself and it's starting to drive me crazy, i need to stop. Any little thing he does or says, i find someway to connect to her and wonder why he said it. I can't continue feeling this way. Any advice???

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Stop stalking his ex would be a start. I don't understand why you got so involved in trying to compare yourself in the first place. She's the ex. They broke up for a reason. Put your time and energy into being his girlfriend. It's unhealthy for you to be dwelling on someone from his past. If it bothers you so much, maybe you two should've taken it slow before getting into the relationship. 
For me, I know I'll never be my bf's exes and I sure as hell don't want to be. If he wants someone like them, especially the ex I feel is the scum of the earth, he can break up with me and go find her. I'm sure there's one in the trash somewhere 👀

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I don't do that shit lol they're his exs. They're what he threw in the trash and that's how it should stay. I'm not friends with any of my exs and my bf isn't either. Causes too much drama

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I did that too, but I actually was right. He was still in love with his ex. He was cheating on me with her. I think a girl knows whether she realizes it or not. I had dreams about it, so I finally said something to her. I was correct. She sent me the messages. 🙄

am i the only one?

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