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does anyone feel like they weren't meant to be a mom or at least not when they became one ?
i'm having a hard time and i'm not sure if i should talk to my boyfriend about it . i'm scared he won't be supportive..

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It's ok and not even uncommon some women feel this way.
Don't feel guilty.
It's hard work, and an overwhelming change.
Hormones are also powerfully influential on emotions and adjusting and coping.
Good on you for having the courage to write what you did on here.
The next step is getting support, and this means speaking to your doctor. If it will help you, ask your boyfriend/ partner to come with you.
Best wishes.

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Are you having ppd? How do you feel?

Why do you feel you werent ready?

You can talk to me... i would hope your so would support you but dont know if they would

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You should make and appointment to see your Dr. you might have post partum depression. I felt that way after I had my daughter. I would often question if I made the right decision becoming a mom. It was very hard on me. But now that she's 1 i wouldn't want my life any other way

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Oh yeah and tons of other women too. Totally normal. Complete life change and takes time to transition. Things got better for me after three months and a little better each month after. At eight months i feel much more Mom like. It gets easier as your body returns to normal and you get back into a groove. My dr said give it a good year.

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I felt like that a lot in the first 3 months. I felt like running away every day. And then my son grew out of his colick and i started enjoying it more. At 6 months, I finally feel like a mom. But I still have bad days.

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My little one is 7 months old and i havent adjusted my life. I have anxioty i dont leave the house and she was such a hard bub with severe reflux and colic on top of that. I really struggle and im not happy either. I feel like my life has no meaning or purpose. I feel a bit like this at times.

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Man!!  I'm going through that sooo bad! I love my twin babies but I regret going through the process to get pregnant 🤰. My husband and I were anxious on becoming parents and when the process got a little difficult for me becoming pregnant, since I had pocos and a thyroid problem becoming pregnant was so difficult. So after trying for 3 years my doctor and humans and I were on board to use Clomid. After 2 rounds we got pregnant. To our somewhat surprise ( had a 50/ 50 chance of having twins or multiples). We found out were we're having twins! We were excited and nervous. Fast forward 3 most after the twins were born I find myself regretting trying to get pregnant! I'm balancing my graduate program and wondering how the hell im going to get through work when I go back with all the sleepless nights! My husband will not help and is incapable of being nurturing. The husband I thought was going to be there for me and the babies is nonexistent. He stays in our room
And watches TV and gets mad each time I try to tell him how to take care of the babies. He gets anxious, frustrated and yells at the babies when they cry. To the point I have to step in and take care and send him away. I'm never been so low in my life until now.

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I felt so guilty for feeling this way. My baby is 3 weeks old and I have an appointment to see the psych Dr. tomorrow morning. I have felt like this. And at the same time I have lamented the ending of my pregnancy. It's crazy. It feels so awful. We just need to get help is all.

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