Balancing sex in a relationship?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while. We have sex frequently and I never worry. However his last relationship ended because their entire relationship was sex. My boyfriend has told me that we have a lot more in common than they did and sex is just a bonus. We openly talk about where we stand on this matter. But what are your opinions on this? How do you balance your relationship and sex?

Answer

I think when u have mental/emotional connection sexual chemistry comes naturally. But when u have that mental/emotional/sexual connection sex almost becomes a necessity in a sense. So you can't really decide if your having "too much" sex. That varies by couple. I mean unless sex becomes a chore then maybe yes at that point question if it's "too much" because your mental and emotional connection are gone. But if u guys are fine, I wouldn't worry about how much u guys have sex.

Sexual connection and sexual chemistry are 2 different things but are on a very fine line. Personally I feel sexual chemistry=lust, you find your self attracted to the person because the temporary euphoria of a fantasy of some sort coming true. Where a sexual connection=love, you find yourself attracted to the persons entire "being" (mind and body) that euphoric feeling isn't really temporary because your connected Mentally and emotionally. A stimulating conversation  about life with that kind of connection is as "euphoric" as "busting a nut"

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Id say just make sure yall talk and hang out maybe don't have sexy every time yall hang out.

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Umm... we do it when we can and want to. And he and I were best friends for 5 years before dating so sex is just an added bonus lol
I think there isn't a need to balance if your suited for each other

Balancing sex in a relationship?

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