So when I found out I was pregnant the first person I told was the father, he immediately went to the thought of an abortion and since I wouldn't get one he left me. Five months pass by and he decides he wants to be in our daughters life so I let him and I'd update him on everything that was going on. Well he changed his mind again and said he doesn't want to be in her life until he's 18 (I'm 16 he's 17) because his mom doesn't like the idea of me having a kid. I was fine with it and still kept him updated today I told him how many days i have left until my due date and he said he was going to try and travel a lot so he won't be around that much. I'm trying to involve him in her life but he doesn't seem to care. am I trying to hard?