I need help!! My fiancé quit smoking almost 6 months ago in efforts for our relationship. I caught her lying to me and things went south. Well we are a lesbian couple, let me say. She wants to carry as well (we both will carry for our family) and I will not support someone smoking while pregnant if I am in a relationship with that person. So unfortunately, she had to pick. It was our family or the cigarettes. Well being with me and our hopeful family to come, was more important!! :D