how do you guys stay positive?!

I should be starting my period today and this was our 5th month ttc baby number 1. I feel like I'm about to start and if so I know I will be majorly bummed. We have used pre seed the last two months. I know 5 months isn't that long but of course it's hard to not get let down and upset. What do you ladies do to kee positive?! I'm finding it harder every month 😞