I made a post about asking for advice for swollen feet at 23 weeks. Everyone told me to go the the ER due to pre-eclampsia. I called my midwife and she said if I didn't have a headache then it must be just normal pregnancy swollenness.

I don't think it is though and now I feel stupid if I go to the hospital since she already said I don't need to.

My feet have doubled in size this morning ( seeing as how I was in bed all day yesterday and last night to reduce swelling) but now I'm having pains like my veins on popping, and my calves are starting to swell. I have not been on my feet at all.

Should I just say screw the midwife and go? She told me to call back if I had a headache, but the swelling just won't go away..