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I need help! I'm so jealous and I get so angry when my boyfriend talks to other girls. I stopped talking to all the guys he doesn't like so we could stay together and he still talks to them even though he knows it upsets me. I'm such a bad person and I always feel guilty but I can't help it. I get angry and jealous 😭 please help me

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Respect is respect. Straight like that if he doesn't respect you and your feelings then he doesn't love you. But also jealousy in a relationship can kill the bond. I'd say relax don't worry yourself meditate! Everything will reveal its self in due time if there is something going on

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You're not ready for a relationship.

There are too many people in the world for someone you're with to make you limit who you interact with. Neither of you should be telling the other not to talk to someone unless you really have a good reason.

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I think you need to keep in mind if he wants to be with you he'll be with you if he wants to be with someone else he'll leave and be with him. That what helps me with jealously. And my dude and I are actually good friends with our exs. Trust, respect and communication are key.

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You are not respecting each other if he made you stop talking to your guy friends and if you make him stop talking to his girl friends. You guys need a really strong trust and you don't have that. Don't be in a relationship where you two can't trust one another. Also, jealousy is a huge factor that can ruin the relationship. Don't be that person.

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100% agree with the last 2 comments. U definitely need to learn how to respect each other. Jealousy does break bonds as much as cheating and can cause those action to pop up even if they weren't b4. Not justifying cheating but when someone is being accused of being unfaithful all the time because of jealousy eventually they're just gonna do it since they're getting in trouble anyway (some cases). In the same respect, if he can't respect ur wishes he's not right for u. A guy that wants to make u happy will make that sacrifice (if it even is) to let go of some female friends he knows can possibly get him in trouble, that's just respect for his relationship, if he doesn't respect u, and u can't put ur jealousy aside enough to trust him "talking" to other girls.. maybe it's time to wash ur hands of the stress it's causing u. No ones worth getting old over

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I get super jealous too even girls I'm friends with too 😅 but honestly don't let him say you can't talk to people they could end up being really good friends & especially don't let him tell you that you need to stop that's not good. It's also not fair that you have to stop talking to guys but he's still talking to girls. It doesn't seem equal with you guys & it seems like a double standard

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He can't have double standards. If you can't talk to guys, he can't talk to girls.... I think if it's just girls that are in the same place as you and it's just conversation and just that than it's fine and he should feel the same about that and you with guys. He shouldn't be going out of his way to talk to other girls but if it's just like being in the same room as the other sex you can't really help that... I think you guys should talk about boundaries.

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