Since the beginning of last week my husband and I have had people die in out family. First his grandmother on his fathers side and then yesterday my cousin was pronounced brain dead and take off of life support. During this time my husband has been back home with his family. Me and our daughter had to stay due to her being in school and due to the fact that it was going to cost 1700 for me and her to fly out a day after he left. Well long story short I've become nonexistent to him and most of this has to do with his mother who when she says jump he says how high. What makes me mad is not what he is doing to me but his dad.. His parents aren't married anymore and haven't been for 21 years and he is spending all his time with his mother and neglecting his dad. Is it wrong of me to be mad at him for spending so much time with her and not just pushing is dad to the side but me as well? Doesn't help that I'm also 14 weeks pregnant and extremely emotional. What should I do I feel lost.