Every time I'm on this group I feel like my little one is behind. He still eats and sleeps on command. He doesn't eat a ton of baby food, still mostly bottles with oatmeal cereal. Doesn't roll over. Doesn't hold his own bottle. Only sleeps 6 hour stretches, and 9 out of 10 times has to be rocked to sleep. He's still swaddled. Only stands if you hold him but doesn't pull himself up or walk unless you make him. He has 6 teeth and sits on his own but doesn't crawl. I work full time and because of work schedules pretty much do everything myself (father's only home when he's sleep). My sister said I coddle him too much but he's my first and only and I'm sorry if I know how to calm him. I've done the crying out thing, it just makes me wanna scream. Forgive the whining...I'm sure he'll do it all when he's ready....I hear it's way too early to worry there is something developmentally/mentally wrong.