Sex Tips.. 🤷🏼‍♀️🙏🏼

5 years ago my man was shot in a home armed attempted robbery. He was shot in the stomach, his body became toxi. He lost a good bit of intestines, his colon, he died on a table twice, he's had numerous surgeries, his lungs filled with blood & one collapsed, im not gonna give his full medical record from the shooting, but he still has bullet fragments in him, & he still suffers with the pain EVERYDAY. my main point of this is because of his pain he doesn't want to have sex like ever, once every two weeks or so? & i thought i was going to lose this man 5 years ago, literally ripped my heart right out of my chest. something about almost losing him makes me want him so much more, maybe it's because i'm afraid to lose him, maybe it's because i just want to be close to him, i don't know.. i feel like a freaking bunny rabbit allllll the time & it literally gets on his nerves 24/7, but i can't help it. i just want to know if anyone has any tips, maybe a massage tip that will help him relax, or maybe a sexual tip that can keep his mind busy.. i want to please him, he just rarely lets me.