Gift after baby

I saw a post asking what everyone is getting their SO's as a gift after the baby and soooo many women were commenting like "I'm giving him a baby I deserve the gift" like excuse the fuck out of me for using your uterus the way it was meant to be used? As if he chose not to carry the baby and made you do it. You opened your legs and he's dealt with your shitty entitled attitude for 9 months. I don't understand why no one thinks they deserve something. They're offering you support, about as much as they can offer you on top of taking care of you and your child. I see how difficult I am with my boyfriend and don't get me wrong he's a pain in my fucking ass but if I could give him the world then I would because he has been here for me through this shitstorm. I have been so uncomfortable and bitchy, and he still gives me and baby girl everything he can.