Two questions

Hey ladies I have two questions for you. I had my little man 3 months ago and I plan to talk to my doctor about it again also but 1st question is:

Me and my husband for like the 3rd time and when we start it hurts soooo bad, it eases after we go a few min super slowly and me finding a comfortable spot. Are an of you getting this? Any tips or advice? Will it go away? Lol okay that was a few questions in a question.

Question 2: I got an epidural so they put a catheder in and I still have this uncomfortable feeling in my urethra area. Any of you experiencing this or have?

Thanks ladies in advance! 😘