i lost my virginity when i was 15. my mom knows that. she also knows i had sex with my last boyfriend. (that's 2 guys). she's only ever made one negative comment about it and that was "you're 17 and are on your way to sleeping with as many guys as i have". other than that she was extremely respectful and said she wished i wouldn't do it but understood it was my choice and respected that. i recently started dating someone and we've been having sex. my mom wasn't home all night last night and we had sex. i forgot to throw the wrapper out (the condom was disposed of, only the wrapper wasn't). she found it this morning and started screaming at me for having sex in the house. i COMPLETELY understand her being mad at that. it's her house, i'm her daughter, she doesn't want me having sex in the house, her house her rules. i know. i felt bad about that, i really did. but then she took it too far. she said she wanted to punch me in the face (my mom used to choke me when i was little), she said there was something wrong with me, that i must have some weird "thing" for taking guys virginities, that i'd slept with as many guys as she has (3). she also said "if you ever fuck a boy in my house again you can find a new place to live". i'm not only confused with this reaction as she knows i'm sexually active, im upset and angry. i'm angry because she told me i can either break up with my boyfriend or we can never spend anytime alone together. as she was walking out the door she said "strike 3 and you're out". when i asked what the other two strikes were she said "all the other guys you've fucked and sucked off". i'm honestly disgusted by her right now. this is why i don't confide in her, because she just throws it back in my face. i understand she doesn't view sex the same way i do and i am still a minor living under her roof, but to slut shame me takes things too far. i truly do feel bad for disrespecting her by breaking her rule, but i'm not sorry for being sexually active. i use protection, everything is consensual, and i'm fully aware of the consequences. now she's at a bar according to find my friends and won't answer my messages. i want to leave and go to my dads but she won't answer so i can't go anywhere. i'm so upset right now. edit: i told my dad and he said he wants my mom to answer before he picks me up because he knows how she gets and doesn't want me to be in more trouble. also her location says she's at a bar but i don't know how accurate it is, that's just another thing that's currently stressing me out.