Sex drive on the pill

So I'm 18 and have been on the pill for around 2-3 years. My sex drive has been low and sex for is uncomfortable, raw feeling, and dry.  Been with my bf for over 3 years and he hates that I'm never in the mood. When we do have sex we use lots of lube but it doesn't seem to be enough. We go until he cums or until it gets so uncomfortably painful that I make him stop and finish him off my hand/mouth. Could the pain be an allergic reaction to latex or lube? Is there any way to raise your sex drive while on the pill without switching brands? I want to be able to enjoy sex and be turned on when the time comes.