So I'll explain myself... I've been with my bf for a year and sex use to be amazing, but now it's not the same most times. He cums faster than he use to. He use to say "I can control it. I always want you to cum first." But now we'll be having sex for only maybe 5 minutes and he'll ask why I haven't came. I tell him sometimes I just can't cum fast (he knows this). So him asking that puts pressure on me. Then I think he gets impatient or just tired of the sex and purposely cums before me, gets off, then the sex is done. Then he said, "that sucks huh? You win some you lose some." Like... dude what if I did that to you?? Just came real fast and got off you without letting you finish then said that to you? I went to bed thinking what an ass he was but eventually he came in there and ate me out till I came, but by that time I wasn't into it the same as before because I felt like he was only doing it because he knows I was mad at him. I feel like we both think of sex as a task now instead of totally enjoying it and showing love to each other. He also never "makes love" to me. He never tells me he loves me during sex but does a million times throughout the day. Idk how to fix this.