Edited: Talked to him.

So I talked to him about how he treated me the other day and he said that the reason he was so upset was because I was being so nice to my daughter's father but not to him he also brought up that I talked to a friend I have had since I was 9. I explained that if he was nicer to me I would talk to him more. I said that he needs to get off his high horse and understand I am going to have friends. His responce made my jaw drop. "But I never said you can't have friends you just can't be friends with anyone you dated, had a crush on, had a crush on you, or slept with, not like you and your rules about my friends"

The girls I told him I didn't like was a girl who after not talking to him in so long she asks him for money and was actively flirting with him and he told her it "made his day" to see a picture of her she sent to his messenger, his ex that would call every other day cussing at him for something he chose to do that she didn't like, called him names and treated him loke shit. And one other girl he said he wanted nothing to do with but talked to on a daily basis. He kidnapped me one day. Refused to take me home to my mom's and the next day while he was at work I got a ex boyfriend (the only person that could) to come get me and pay my phone bill so I could text him without having to face him. That weekend he spent the whole weekend asking the girl he "doesn't want anything to do with" if they could hang out once her boyfriend was gone (even got to hang out for 30 minutes once he was gone) I have spent the best of 2 years trying to be perfect for him and it all ended because I was being "too nice" to my childhood friend and my daughter's father. (Both of which has girlfriend's that have all access to their phone and knows nothing is going on)

Edit: he keeps telling me its my fault. He says things like "I treat you this way because you ignore me" and "It's your fault I'm so upset with you" "You did this to yourself"

He even once blamed me for him not paying his bills when I left him before after I saw him messaging other girls. He said he went to therapy and his therapist said that he shouldn't be with me.