Anyone else's boyfriend/husband leave them because they wouldn't have an abortion?

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I'm 21, FTM! 29 weeks with a baby girl💕 My boyfriend of 5 years who is now 36, completely ditched me and immediately got another girlfriend because I refused to have an abortion!! So I've been going through the entire pregnancy with my heart broken and constantly panicking over him and this girl he messes around with now. I loved him soooo much. I can't believe I didn't know the true side of this person up until I told him I was pregnant. Talk about betrayal!!! And heart ache :(

Anyone else going through the same thing? You're not alone..

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When I was 20 my (now ex) bf and I wound up pregnant. I told him at the very beginning that I was keeping the baby, but after four weeks he tried convincing me to put the baby up for adoption. I wouldn't even talk about it so he left me

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Mine said he was going to kill himself if I didn't get an abortion. Needless to say, no one is worth losing my child for, unborn or not. I moved 700 miles away, back in with my parents for now. But so much better better than being around his dramatic ass. Don't let it stress you. It's his loss.

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Wow, he's a total loser. Sounds like a commitment phobic player. You'll do better than him in the future. Good for you for keeping your baby. :-)

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My baby father tried pressuring me into having an abortion when he first found out. I told him no, now he acts like he's ok with it but he keeps saying he doesn't want kids never do and never will. I've told him several times that if he doesn't want to be here that he doesn't have to be. But he won't leave me alone. I think I'm going to leave him because he's so negative all the time and he's constantly bringing my mood down like I can even enjoy life with him always crying about everything. I'm 36+6 weeks today.

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Unfortunately that's very common.  They pressure the woman into getting an abortion and if the woman doesn't,  they leave.  Pathetic and sad,  but very common. 
The truth is that you CAN do a very good job on ur own. It's harder, that's true, but at least he showed his true colors . 
Single moms are wonderful and do a fantastic job on their very own. 
I was blessed with a man that told ME he wanted a child.  And he has been by my side for every single visit, check up and appointment. He's a fantastic daddy and a wonderful fiance. But truth be told,  men like him don't come around often. I'm just blessed and greatful to have him.

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I am not... and I'm sorry you are, but you can do it. And congrats! You'll be a great mom without him! Your baby is lucky to have you!

Anyone else's boyfriend/husband leave them because they wouldn't have an abortion?

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