body shaming
I went on a date with a guy Friday. It was great, we had sex, he paid for dinner and mini golfing. I didn't think anything was wrong. We texted a couple days and then out of nowhere I get this message from him. And then I gave him my response. 




He obviously didn't have a problem about my weight when we were doing the hanky panky so I don't understand why now. But it's whatever because I'll never waste time on a guy who wants to change me because I'll never fit into his idea of a beautiful and sexy woman. I am beautiful and sexy in my own damn right. Just look at me

Quit body shaming people. Every woman is beautiful just as every man is handsome. Except for this douche canoe.
EDITED: I understand that people have preferences and the fact that he's into fit women isn't what bothers me. What bothers me is that he thought I was so into him that I was willing to change my appearance to accommodate him just so that I can date him. He didn't thank that I was beautiful and sexy because I'm pudgy. He wanted to change me and that wasn't and isn't okay with me. He could've said I wasn't his type and I would've been fine with that. He could've left it at that and I wouldn't have gotten mad. But I posted this conversation on here to let women know that you don't let a guy try to change you because he believes he's god's gift to women. You stand up for yourself and love yourself the way you are. I'm 4'11" and weigh around 160lbs. But I don't let that stop me from loving who I am even though I know I could lose weight. Self loving yourself is more important than loving another person.
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