18 year old boyfriend gave his hoodie to a 14 year old?...

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My 18 year old boyfriend trained a girl at his work (fast food) who was 14. They really needed the help I guess and hired her as a helper/ volunteer until she's of age. She flirts with him and says she has sexual feelings towards him. He obviously finds it funny and adorable that a 14 year old girl likes him. But he told me he gave her his hoodie because she just simply wanted it. My boyfriends the type of person who gives things to whoever he cares about and tells me not to worry because she's jail bait. But it doesn't help but worry me. Am I worrying for no reason or is it weird to give this girl who he says is his friend, his hoodie? 🤔

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I don't think you need to worry about him cheating or anything. But I'm worried that giving this girl his hoodie is leading her on and encouraging her to flirt.

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Ok. I know I would be pissed. But then I try to think that if he had given it to a dude, would I be this upset? Probably not. But the fact that you told him your concerns and the reason he gave back was because she is jailbait,  worries me. Ya know, instead of saying I'm with you and I love you, so you don't have to worry about her.

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I think guys who call young girls jail bait kinda creepy. Theyre basically saying no only because they don't like the prospect of ended up in prison not that she's too young or it would be inappropriate.

If it was me I'd leave him, giving his hoody to her is so inappropriate, and is going to lead her on. Also his reaction to me said it all, he never said you have nothing to worry about she's a kid, I love you and only want to be with you. Is the kind of response you should of got.

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If me personally, I'd be mad but try to get over it bc I know my boyfriend would mean absolutely no harm. ALTHOUGH, my friends now ex fiancé who is 21 had a girl at his work (16-17 idr) texting and flirting with him and after months of this going on, my friend walked in on them having sex in her apartment so just depends on your dude

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I would be pissed, he's leading her on. He may not like her cause she's 14 but he definitely likes the attention he's getting from her

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Drop him. Immediately. And never look back. He should be reassuring you, not giving his jacket to her. Those jokes would not fly with me and some big red flags are going off in my head reading this. She's 14!! She has no business with him and he should be telling her that, not encouraging her flirting. If I was you, I'd go there and introduce yourself to her if you really wanna stay with him. But any 18 year old who thinks it's cute a 14 year old likes him needs to be kept far away from your heart girl!!

18 year old boyfriend gave his hoodie to a 14 year old?...

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