going out while pregnant

So my cousin invited me to go to her 25th birthday party at a club next Friday and since we haven't hung out since we were teens I agreed to go. Immediately I invited my SO and he agreed to go, but when I told him where he said that I shouldn't be going to a club while pregnant he said the same thing about me going to a concert next month. He's one of those guys that acts like he's okay with me going out until I actually have plans and he was like that even when I wasn't pregnant. I don't complain because I'm the same way when it comes to him going out with his friends 🙄, but I invited him specifically because I know I'm pregnant and so he can see I'm not going to be doing anything to put myself in danger. It's like every since we found out I'm pregnant I can't do anything that maybe enjoyable he uses the your pregnant excuse more then I care to hear. He even had the nerve to give me the same speech that the bouncer used in the move knocked up. What do you think I should do about going?