Or how they cannot wait to get away from them. Or how tired they are and how bad they want to be alone and want their kid to let them sleep. I see things shared on Facebook basically to "that mom" who is miserable. "You are enough, you are important, you are worthy" like I wondered is this what it's really like? Will I really need a reminder than I am worthy and enough? Honestly, that's some birth control right there.  So I asked my mom. Mother of 6 kids.