Would you stay if your husband had a one night stand?

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I want to say no, but honestly I don't know what I would do. We have a 6 month old son and I'm a SAHM. I would honestly want to work on our marriage for our child's sake, but I don't know if I could move past him being unfaithful. I guess it would depend on how honest he was about it and how willing he was to fix himself and our relationship.

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I want to say no but that is so cliche. My husband had a one night stand 6 years ago before we were married and he told me the truth about it before I even questioned him. I stayed. I wanted to leave but I stayed.

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Honestly, yes, it's possible. Sexually infidelity is not the worst thing that a man could do. It's the lying that would bug me. Therefore, if he didn't lie...I would not be near as upset so we could definitely work through it. If he messed up, had a drunken encounter with a busty brunette and immediately told me about it and was sincerely apologetic...I could forgive that. If I found out about an ongoing affair FROM the busty brunette, much less likely because he lied the whole time. Also worth noting that I'm also the kind of gal who wouldn't automatically reject her fella if he expressed the desire to have sex with other women. I should hope he would feel like he could discuss those desires with me so we could either get to the root of the reason he wanted the strange, or some up with a plan that would satisfy both of our needs prior to the act.

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You mean if he cheated???? Hell no

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I don't know. Hope it never happens

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Wtf?! Hell no. If you choose to put your health at risk feel free but you're not fucking me up. I'm sleeping with you assuming I'm your only and I don't have to worry I'll catch something. If you still feel the need to act single then be single. I don't have patience for that. Go somewhere else with that.

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If you cheated on me I can't trust you. If I can't trust you I can't be with you. Relationships are built on trust, to me it's the most important thing.

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My husband and I discussed things like this early on. We know if we are unhappy for any reason we can get out but we will not cross that line. He knows I will not forgive and I know he will not either. We know the consequences.

Would you stay if your husband had a one night stand?

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