So I had my doctor appointment today and I'm at a 3 and 80% effaced everyone is kinda freaking out because I'm 4 weeks early but my first daughter was born at 31 weeks exactly I think I'll be fine and my doctor seems to think we will both be fine and deliver in the next 2 weeks or so should I be worried about what everyone is saying?? I feel like my body has been speaking loud just not clear for a few weeks now....