is it just me or...?

Why am I always constantly having to repeat myself to my husband? I can literally tell him something, within 20 min I swear, he'll ask me the same question I just answered. At first, I didn't really notice so I would just keep repeating myself. But Freaking 2 years into the marriage at this point & it's only getting worst. We are in the process of getting a house, so anytime there is paperwork needed, it's emailed to the both of us, and I just explain what I need to Bc my husband acts like he doesn't know what's going on. Days ago, he asked me for our loan Advisor's number, so I gave it to him. Last night, I told him there are some emails he needs to print out & fax to the advisor asap. I've said that about 4-5x throughout the day since I got her emails yesterday saying it needed to be done. Woke up this morning, and my husband yet again, asks for her number & the paper work he needed. I'm pissed cause it's 5:30 am & he's asking me something I already answered a few times last night. I even told him to email the Docs to himself from my phone, since he was on it last night, just so he can already have them,but he didn't. He chooses to play games while I talk, zone out, then make me repeat myself Bc he didn't care to listen the first time. 85% of our relationship is me repeating myself Bc he can't listen. Idk what to do Bc I've talked to him ab this problem for literally 2 years now. His family said I knew what I was getting in to? But really? He never did that before we got married so I don't know why he's on it now but I told him word for word, "if I've already repeated myself once or twice over whatever it is your about to ask, you're not getting an answer. Idc if that means you missed the deadline for the house paper. If you can't remember & listen when your wife is speaking, then you don't have a wife to talk to." Call me a bitch, but I'm tired of wasting my breath. Texted him & said that until he can learn to listen better, I will no longer be picking him up for lunch. Only did that to make his life easier but he has it too easy. Just gonna sit back & enjoy myself.