I hate it when people say "so your one of THOSE pregnant women"

It really annoys me when I'm out for dinner or eating at a friends house and I say I can't eat that because it's got raw egg in or please could you cook my meat through... and people say "oh your one of those pregnant people!" I know they mean no harm by it but I have been through a lot to be pregnant. Ivf treatments, waiting and not to mention a massive cost! I'm so happy, however I'm nervous like everyone else and I want to make sure that I do everything right for my baby. Does anyone else feel this way? X