I'm starting to feel numb and alone. I had the cops called so I can leave my apartment after my husband (who was intoxicated) had me pinned down and his hands pressing on my neck and would not let me leave. After perhaps thirty minutes of trying to leave he asked me to prepare him boiled hotdogs, and I did just that to not anger him. While they were boiling I went out to the balcony which was the only place he allowed me to go in attempt to catch someone's attention to help me get out. They said they'd call the cops and I said okay. Right before the cops arrived he had just fallen asleep giving me the chance to finally get out. I was scared I didn't know where to go. I waited on the police outside my building because I did not want them to go knocking on the door and him finding out I had the cops called on him. But after explaining what happened and telling them I just needed to leave, they told me they had to speak to him to get his side of the story. I told them he was asleep at the moment. They asked me if they can go in, and I told them yes and directed them to where he would be. They told me to stay down stairs while they go up to file a report when they come back. So I waited. They had him hand cuffed and he told them he did not have his hands on me (He tells me the same as well). They also told me because there were no bruises and because I didn't say he was squeezing my neck, they wouldn't take him to jail, which were not my intention to begin with. They asked me if i wanted to charge him of anything and i said no. Than they reported the incident as domestic violence. That was 3 days ago.