I need a little help

Ok so I know I talk about this topic a lot...strip clubs. I am completely against them. I got into an argument last night with my boyfriend about me not wanting him to go to them. I was trying to find the words to say why I don't want him to go but wverytime I tried to say something the words got mixed up in my head and nothing made sense. Could you ladies (or men) help me figure out what to say? I'm a terrible person when it comes to saying my feelings. Thanks ladies❤❤