Debbie Downer & Petty Betty

It's 8pm here, I put my daughter to sleep with my parents and I told my husband that we were gonna drink wine in my brother's room. Well as we waited for my sister to come with the wine to the hotel, I said "let's grab one drink downstairs while we wait"

We go, grabbed a drinker, my sister and fiancé comes and they get a drink. I sent a snap to my husband with us 4 and he TYPICAL response is "don't tell me you're going to have wine in the room if you're not". This made my blood boil. WHY DO I NEED TO TELL YOU MY EVERY MOVE? it's really not a big deal and he claims he doesn't need to know every detail, but why make such a dumb comment. I shouldn't have been bothered and now we both escalated even worst.