Can us women have guy friends?

Question

Alright, so my boyfriend and I have been debating for months if women can have male friends. Basically this debate started because I have two close guy friends (Cole & Antonio), who are now basically my brothers. When I go back to Arizona, I love to see my friends, especially Cole & Antonio.

I have been friends with Cole & Antonio since freshman year of high school, so for 6 years now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for only 6 months. At first he was trying to make me choose between him and my friends, but I told him they are literally JUST friends. I understand guys want sex. I get that. But I've been friends with these guys for so long that there is ZERO romantic relationship between any of us. Now, I also never hangout with them alone, it's always my best girlfriend Rielyn with me when we hangout with Cole & Antonio.

Basically, my question is, what do you guys think of this relationship...even though I view them as brothers, I want to hear your opinion. And is it wrong to hangout with them when I go back home?

Answer

Why is this in the health board?

Answer

I have a lot of guys friends, my boyfriend totally gets it and understands.

Answer

It's definitely not wrong of you to want to see your friends when you're in town. If there had been a relationship at any point, I can understand your boyfriend being unsure of their intentions, but even so he shouldn't try and stop you from seeing someone that you care for and have been friends with for so long. Maybe it would help if he met your guy friends?

Answer

I want to say no as long as y'all discuss boundaries like you're not alone with them in a bedroom you know? I have a guy friend that has a girlfriend so I try not disrespect their relationship

Can us women have guy friends?

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