just had 3 positives...
So last night I took a pregnancy test, and it came back positive. I took two more today, they are both positive, so yes I am definitely pregnant. My husband is not happy about it. We were not planning this baby, something went wrong with my birth control. But I am happy still, we have been married for almost 2 years, we are madly in love, he just got a new job that we moved to Boston, Mass. for. It is really good money, and we were really excited for the big move. I understand that it is big news... we were both in shock last night so we didn't really talk about it, then this morning he left for work and we did not talk about it at all. Then I was texting him all day, just some of my thoughts about it. And then I asked him, "whenever we do talk about it tonight when you come home, please try to be a little bit compassionate. I know it's hard for you sometimes, but please try to realize that I am the one going through this, and I really need your love and support right now. The messages that I got back oh my God! One of them actually said, "I will hate you forever if you keep this baby." I cannot believe you spoke to me the way you did, i'm in shock. We haven't even had a conversation about it at all yet! And my main concern was him coming to the conversation with anger or being uncompassionate and unloving... now I don't even want him to come home from work! How should I handle this? I know that it is a surprise, but I have gotten an abortion before, and I do not want to get another one! I believe in pro-choice, but now we are married, we will be financially stable within the next few months, Husband has a good job, we love each other very much, I don't know why he is so angry. Will you really hate me forever if I decide to keep this baby? I'm heartbroken :(.

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