1- It didn't happened by chance, he actually went to okcupid and made it happen... twice 

2- He didn't use a condom...What if she was infected or sick?! Or even worse I read she got pregnant and apparently had a miscarriage

3- She claims he begged her to have a relationship and keep seeing each other, while he was telling me he loves me and wanted to get married.

4- It happened while I was doing everything on my power to go to meet him in person for the first time after 3 months of relationship

5- Apparently he "chose" me because she said no... even when we've been together for 3 months already

6- Now I have to consider to forgive him or not, just because I got pregnant 

7- My friends used to make fun of my relationship by saying he was probably cheating and I always tell them to fuck off they didn't know him well... humiliated 

8- I asked him about her once and he said not to worry about her he even got mad and made feel like I was acting crazy 

9- I should be happy while I'm pregnant not miserable 

10- The 8 past months went to hell thanks to this... I feel like I wasted my time and my money 

+The first weekend we spent together was the time of my life it meant a lot to me... to "us"... Now when I think about it I cry cause I can't stop thinking about how he lied and just days before and after that he was being unfaithful... it's fucking disgusting! 

Sorry ladies I just need to vent :(