big family

So I'm the youngest of 4 ... and growing up I was by myself growing up because my siblings are way older like 12 years and up... so I said I would have 7 kids when I got older... well I'm at 4 now and my husband got his vasectomy done😪so no more for us.... but why do ppl Shame ppl for wanting a big family?! Like if you can take care of the kids and yourself I don't see a problem?!