I have being so dependent on him! Rant/need advice!
LONG READ BUT PLEASE TAKE THE TIME!!
So I just need some advice. I can't talk about this to anyone. I don't have friends and I can't talk to family.
I am 22 and I am married to my high school sweetheart. We met in 8th grade and have been together ever since. We have been married 5 years. He is the only person I have ever been with. I have never even dated anyone else. We also have a 2 year old and a 6 month old. Well at the moment we live with his parents. We have lived with his parents on and off. We move out and then something happens (i.e. my husband quits his job) and we are right back in. Right now neither of us work but we are in school. My husband goes to EMT school and I take 4 online classes and a night phlebotomy class. My husbands parents pay all the bills and we pay for our car and phones and stuff for our kids from my husbands VA education stipend. We also buy the groceries with our food stamps and WIC.
Well I'm not happy here. My fil and is rude and mean and likes to tell me how to parent my children. My mil is EXTREMELY attached to my daughter (2) and acts like she is her mom. We were in a position to move in December but my mil threw a fit and begged my husband for us not to so we didn't.
I'm also very dependent on everyone else because I don't/can't drive. So I have to be driven to school or anywhere else by someone else and I hate that. My husband is a lazy ass most of the time. He refuses to cook, clean, or anything unless is important to him. I have to beg him to take me to the store. He treats me and the kids like crap a whole lot of the time too.
I'm getting to where I want out but I have no where to go. I can't drive, I don't have a job, if I quit school (going for my LPN) then I'll never have a good job. Idk what to do.
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