Emotional Mama

I am 20 weeks pregnant, so idk if this is because of my hormones or what. I have a one year old who I guess you could say I am protective of since he is my first child. So my boyfriends family is going to their grandmas house for Easter Dinner or whatever and they want my son to go. I just found out about this as my bf is getting our son dressed. I asked him what was he doing and he said getting him dressed to go with my mom ( who I already am not very fond of). I don't think they would do anything bad to my son but I am worried for some reason. Idk why I feel this way but I just do. I feel like they may feed him cake that he shouldn't eat or too much juice or idk. And the thing is that we live in the same apartment complex as his mother and sister. Its like a 2 minute walk to our door and they never bother to come by and visit my son. So my son now cries at people he doesnt know so thats mostly everyone besides me and daddy. So he doesnt even know who they are because they hardly ever come to visit. And the other sister who lives like 15 min away and visits their mom often over here doesnt come by to say hey either. So now they want to take my son for some "family" time and probably take a million pictures with him today. But then tomorrow its gonna go back to the same bullcrap. And I also met the other family one time and they were rude to me. My boyfriend doesnt want to go over their because he knows how they are and what they say out of their mouths but he's okay with my son going. I didn't want to say no because I guess he does need to see his "family" but I am sad and I just have this feeling. This is the type of people who basically only come around when they want to ask for something. Money, food, toilet paper anything. The daughter who lives 15 minutes away has a daughter who is 5 and shes always over here at her grandmas house and grandma gets her from daycare sometimes but thats not the case with my child.