need sleep tips desperately

CD • Ella born 12-27-16 🌈
Coming to terms that we have an issue. I didn't go back to work and decided to be a stay at home Mom. My baby will be 4 months on the 27th and has been sleeping with me since we came home. We tried the bassinet and rock n play without any luck. It's bad now that she sleeps with me all night. And I have to hold her for her naps all day. I literally can't get anything done. About an hour after every bottle she gets so tired and just wants to sleep. She does use a pacifier too. What's real bad now is she is getting strange about other people holding her and her lip comes out and she cries. Any advice would be appreciated!