getting frustrated...

Myself. I feel like I don't get at least a minute break. I live with my boyfriend and his mom plus brother. So I have help but I feel like my boyfriend doesn't do half the stuff I do throughout the day for our son. Yes he takes care him but I feel like I do it more then him. I tried telling him but he goes off on me and starts saying so I'm not good father now? U saying I don't take care him? I tell him no I'm not saying that, all I'm saying if I can get more help during the morning and throughout the day alittle more. I can't take a nap because I have care for our son which I ain't complaining I love my baby boy. But I get drained out. I have tell him do take over. But he's always on his phone. Or sleeping while I'm up early morning with him. Or gets his time alone to go smoke a cig. But me? No. He tell me to wake him up in middle the night but I feel like I shouldn't. I feel like once he hears his son cry you should automatically get up but he doesn't he be dead asleep. I'm sooo frustrated with it. I told him I don't regret my son but I regret having him now because I feel like you wasn't ready for this big change. It's not about us it's about him rn. When I can get a chance to nap when baby sleeps, he wants go back to sleep and says I'll take over don't worry but I don't trust him because he slept through him screaming crying one time when I went to go pee and I had rush out to get him. Ughhh. Sorry I just need to vent. Idk if I kept repeating myself but I just had get it off somehow. Or if I'm asking for to much or being ungrateful for help I do get from him idk but yeah...

I give props to you single parents(mother or father/guardians).