Do you ever feel like you have failed your life and keep making mistakes?

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Not really controversial but didn't know where else to post this:
I'm having another baby and I wanted to be able to be happy this round and enjoy my pregnancy...but things keep popping up and stressing me out and I feel like a complete and utter failure to not only my son but also my family...I don't have really any friends I can talk to and I have a hard time even making friends and my family I could talk to but they can't keep things to themselves and I don't want my issues being aired to my entire family...I also don't feel like crying in front of anyone I don't like to look weak to the people in my life...so I was just curious is it normal to feel like you have just completely failed at everything in your life?

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My life as of late seems to be an never ending cycle of crap in which i don't care about and still keep getting dragged into.

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My life is destined to be a shallow downhill slope 😂

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I don't look at my life as mistakes just some missed opportunities. But, those missed opportunities can sometimes reappear in different forms. When you stand in the eye of any storm you cannot see which direction you are suppose walk in, and that is frightening for some not all. However, taking a leap of faith or just taking a chance is something we all need to try at some point in our lives, because if we stand stagnate how would we ever progress or achieve what it is we want?

Even if you lose out on an opportunity you can make your own opportunity by hustling and pushing forward. I strongly feel that when you loose out on opportunities they come back to you in different forms. Just keep fighting.😉

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All the time. I got pregnant and had to change my life a lot. I think I was living in some dream world where I could turn everything around and have a picture perfect life. Now I'm realizing that's not even possible to obtain.

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I feel like I failed by not going to college,  but I work for the state and plan on as a career, pay my own bills, (well my s/o and I split them ) etc so could be doing a lot worse.  I do wanna go back to college though.

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Yup. Feel like I'm on this black hole and bad luck is everything thst surrounds me.

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My life is a never ending spiral of constant bs that I can't escape.

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Honey you are only one person and can only do one thing at a time. I find that I need to make a priority list and make an effort to stick to it because if you allow life to just run off with everything , you will be completely bat shit crazy! Start by taking some time just for you every day. If you have a job in the morning or if you get off early or if you do nothing at all all day take some time just to sit and reflect on what you can do to be a better at handling stress read draw paint something that relaxes you and then plan your day. sounds like you're taking on too much at one time it may not have a support system to ease the crazy.  Good luck, a lot of us are battling this now!

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I feel the same. Even the good things in my life are crashing down around me right now, and there aren't many good things to begin with. I feel like it's time to give up on life, but i can't figure out what exactly that looks like, and I'm afraid if I mess up it'll be at baby's expense and I don't want my weakness to wreck someone's life.

Do you ever feel like you have failed your life and keep making mistakes?

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