weight issues! 17 weeks 3 days..

So today I'm 17w3d and I've been kind of depressed about my recent weight gain.. I've never been over 200 pounds an now I'm 206 pounds an I'm sure I'm only going to get bigger.. I'm hours away from my four sisters an I lost my mom in 2010 so basically my only friend is my SO an my 3 year old son.. I was really depressed one night an I was telling my SO how horrible I feel about this new acquired weight an then he says "I wonder who's thighs are bigger?! Mines or yours?" I wanted to leave him! He hurt my feelings like seriously.. you think I'm overreacting?