Is he selfish?

Last night my boyfriend finally decided to take me out after a long time. He surprised me and took me to the bowling alley. He's never bowled before and I was kind of excited to show him how and have fun bowling with him. We get there and he goes straight to the pool table. So we play a few rounds of pool and then he asked what now? I said let's bowl! He said no. I said why not? He said I just don't want to and he kind of got an attitude with me. I said I can teach you how it's easy. He's like it's not that I just don't want to. It looks boring. I said actually it's fun, can we just try? I want to. But he kept saying no. So I dropped it and we just went home. Then the minute we get home he turns on the tv and I said why can't you just sit and talk with me? Why do you always have to watch tv? He's like I just took you out! But he could tell I was really upset. And so we sat and talked but he would talk a little with me then purposely yawn and throw in some "wow I'm tired" crap. But then when we get to bed he's down to have sex for a hour, couldn't have been that tired! He made the whole day reallydisappointing  for me and I feel like he's selfish. Just wondering your guys thoughts on this?