cheating

There have been a lot of posts about cheating tonight and most of the comments are telling people if you stay with a cheater you don't respect yourself, your letting them walk all over you, or once a cheater always a cheater. 1) staying in a relationship with a cheater doesn't mean you have any less respect for your self. 2) you know your relationship better then anyone else. whether you want to admit it or not you know when things can be fixed and when you should walk away. 3) I know at least 3 separate couples who have dealt with cheating none of them have anymore problems and they've all been together 6+ years.  The majority of people might not end up with a happily ever after, but some relationships can be fixed.  Sidenote from what I've seen people who are cheating purely for physical reasons are more likely to be repeated cheaters the those who are cheating for emotional reasons.