rant help plis

So my husband rather work 2 jobs from 5am to 11:00 pm sometimes till 12, than spend time with the kids and i 7days a week i mean i apreciate that he works and all but when it comes to paying bills were always late on everything because he dosent have money, where does all the money from the 2 jobs goes you ask i ask the same question all the time and his response is i have shit to pay, why don't you get a job and see how hard it is, ( i had a job since i was 16 i was independent till when i had my son about 2 yrs ago because he made me quit "for the sake of our son" wich is understandable i don't want anyone else rasing our son, but when is it enough we have 2 kids now 1 and about to be 3 yr old, everyone in my house hold works but me and i was thinking maybe work the 2 days my mom is off idk i just need opinions please be nice thankyou