Baby shrieking all day...

My baby has been doing this thing where she SCREAMS at the top of her lungs so loud it literally hurts my ears. I have no idea why. She does it when she's happy and when she's upset. I can't take it anymore. I can't put her down. I can't do anything. there's half empty bottles all over the floor, a dirty diaper in the crib, and i haven't brushed my teeth in two days because she WONT STOP. but as soon as my husband comes home she's the happiest baby ever. Does she just hate me??